 So. You know how you always wanted really nice photos of you and your family? Not really posed, more like just…hanging out together. Just being you. Even way before I became a photographer, and especially when my daughter was really little, I always wanted to hire a photographer for a day to follow us around…  (so sorry to inject that FG reference) It was so great seeing the Impossible Project folks up in LA this past weekend! They always host a great show (we missed the opening because of LA Friday night traffic–boo!) and great, fun workshops. For this exhibit I had one piece shown; one from my dog/Polaroid project…  I have a confession to make. I haven’t been entirely truthful. With myself, I mean. What I’ve said to all of you, about aging, about weight, about embracing all of that and rocking it and loving it, all that has been true. But when I’ve said those things to myself, I’ve lied. Until now. I…
March 24, 2013 - 5:43 pm
I really really adore you.
March 24, 2013 - 5:45 pm
Well you made me tear up a bit (again) because I can so relate to what you are saying. Yesterday when my husband hollered up to my studio and asked if I wanted pancakes I quickly responded, “Yes!” A bit later I realized that I’ve been saying yes more often to foods that I have denied myself for so long. And yes, I’ve gained weight ~ and I know I have to be careful to not let it get out of control. But I’m happy. I’m happy eating pancakes and mashed potatoes and all the comfort foods I didn’t allow. I guess the key is moderation.
March 24, 2013 - 6:37 pm
This is beautiful, Susan, and so are you.
March 24, 2013 - 6:53 pm
I sooooooooo love your fabulous attitude! Good post!
March 24, 2013 - 8:13 pm
Sarah, thank YOU! You’ve always been one of my inspirations. It’s so funny how we inspire each other, all of us, and never even realize it. Cindi, I’m totally there with you. Acceptance is divine. Just, divine. Thank you, Lynda <3 You’re so sweet, and I really appreciate you reading this. And thank you, too, Kim. My attitude is a bit up and down lately, but today it’s pretty high. i’m glad I went with it :)
March 24, 2013 - 8:24 pm
Bingo.
March 24, 2013 - 8:34 pm
Thanks for everything, Konig. I <3 you like a big bad mofo.
March 24, 2013 - 8:49 pm
Wow Susan, I haven’t met you yet and I already adore you. This was beautiful and you are truly beautiful!
March 24, 2013 - 9:18 pm
I love ths. I think you are beautiful and I am glad you can see and feel that now.
March 24, 2013 - 9:31 pm
I couldn’t respect, love, or agree with you more.
March 25, 2013 - 12:01 am
Excellent words. You get it.
March 25, 2013 - 7:48 am
<3 I love this. thank you!
March 25, 2013 - 9:01 am
My favorite line so far from GIRLS. Of course you loved it too. You look beautiful and amazing and tough and fun. Body image is such a nasty piece of work for most women. I’m so lucky that I’ve always loved me and even more lucky that Tracy learned to love herself at a very early age. Every women could use a little inspiration now and again- so thanks for this!
March 25, 2013 - 10:20 am
softer. sexier. happier.
March 25, 2013 - 12:38 pm
Love this! Someone posted it on FB and I’m so glad I followed the link. What a joy, what a relief, and that’s not just because I’ve been going through some strange 3-month phase where I’ve eaten everything that’s not nailed down and just want to let myself. Thanks for sharing this truth, and more power to your beautiful self!
March 25, 2013 - 12:50 pm
Love this! It’s so true! Thank you for being real with this. We need more of this in the world. Thank you for being a powerful voice.
March 25, 2013 - 1:01 pm
I fucking love you.
March 26, 2013 - 5:20 pm
Wow. Thanks so much ladies for your words of encouragement; your empathy and support. I know I’ve made a lot of noise about this particular issue in my life during the past year or two; and I’ve come upon more than a couple “epiphanies” about how I feel about myself. But if anyone asks how many more I need until I’m really “good” with everything, I’ll just say as many as I need to. I feel totally great and totally liberated, which is really the opposite of how I thought I would react to this change. It really is funny how putting a few pounds on my belly can take so much weight off my shoulders. Thanks again, loves. |
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Nicole Glazier - These photos are SO special!! Love all of them and I love that you were a part of our amazing day!!!
susan sabo - That was really a great day, Nicole. And who knew I would get a new family too? xo
erica barraca - love it!
Jeanie & Tom Glazier - Such a fun time. You’re the best “spy” ever. It was a perfect day to enjoy our daughter who was visiting from North Carolina. We now have candid photos with “all” of us in the frame. Couldn’t have happened with out you. Thank you Susan.
susan sabo - Erica, when you’re here next week we’re not going to be able to Spy you, because I’m going to put you and Mr. Man in the studio and I’m going to keep you there as long as I can! :)
Hey Jeanie, Hi Tom. I’m really glad that Nicole arranged that day for you; working is always fun, but making friends during the process is better than cake. xo