do you know who you’re talking to?

So. I thought I’d give you another peek at the progress on my MHA The Village (a program of Mental Health America) portrait shoot. I’m really stoked to be working on these images; I’ve culled them, picked out the best ones for final prints and have made basic adjustments in Lightroom. Next I’ll work on these in Photoshop until I get everyone looking their Sunday best (or whatever our best is these days) and then I’ll order the frames. (By the way, sorry for the big watermark, but I’m sure you’ll understand the importance of these images staying where I put them and not being used for other purposes.)

It’s seriously difficult for me to not just send everything I have over to Hilary right now. I know that everyone who participated (hey, did I tell you that we had well over 60 people have their portrait taken??) is super anxious to get their photos, and personally, I cannot wait until the day I take all the bubble-wrapped goodies down to hand out. That will be an experience that will be hard to beat.

I loved getting to know these people (the blacked out photos are those of the people who did not want their photos shared); I loved hearing their stories and I have to tell you, all of them were pretty generous with the details of their lives. Hilary helped get people at ease by asking them general questions about what makes them happy, what they like to do, stuff like that. We got some funny answers that really did make us LOL, and we got some tears of gratitude as well as tears of accomplishment. You know how you can be talking about something that was enormously impactful in your life, and you just start to cry? It was like that for lots of folks. It was amazing for them to share this; not just their stories, but their selves.

Mr. Susan observed, on the second day, that everyone had such amazing stories; we had poets, writers, artists, mothers, victimized women…everyone’s story was like a movie of the week, without the cheese. You know, as you walk down the streets of your city, you probably pass people like these everyday. Society doesn’t see them; maybe sometimes you don’t either. Don’t feel guilty; let’s face it, it’s sometimes easy to overlook them. But I’ll bet if you stopped one or two and just started a conversation, you’d be floored at who you find yourself talking to. I know some street photographers who know how this is. It’s why they shoot what they shoot. I get that. Totally.

So. Back to work.

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April 26, 2012 - 2:16 pm

Nicole Harlow - I so love this Susan. One of the things we do, just because it’s become habit over the years, we both keep spare change, and we always at the absolute very least ask their names. The times when we have time, we talk, and have met some pretty amazing people, mostly homeless vets, and it breaks your heart, but it’s so nice to see a smile.

April 26, 2012 - 10:33 pm

Tamelyn Feinstein - I <3 you. For many reasons. This is one of them.

April 30, 2012 - 7:32 pm

susan sabo - I know what you mean, Nicole. I’ve gotten to “know” a few people around Long Beach, and they’re always so happy and nice when I see them.

Oh, T. You you I’m sending that right back atcha’ :)

May 5, 2012 - 10:41 pm

minta - i meet the most amazing people everyday….running errands…standing in line at the grocer…waiting for the oil change ….etc. i have learned that everyone appreciates being “heard”….so that what i do..small talk to open….smile…mirror their posture & listen. I always leave a card..& sometimes I get a foto to share ….. KUDOs to you Susan….the impact will be HUGE ….& it will spread exponentially …I can just feel it.. =)

May 6, 2012 - 9:39 am

susan sabo - Hi Minta, thanks for the nice words. Yes! Being heard and being seen. We all want it, but we have no idea how to ask for it. So if we’re lucky, we take pictures, or we blog, or we Instagram, etc.

You’re so open and easy to talk to, I can imagine that you are great at striking up a conversation with just about anyone. I envy that quality in you. :)

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